Subject: If I were a woman...
If I were a woman...
December 30th, 2016 at 4:00 am EDTHey babe, Booda here. There’s one reason why we do Dude Panel, and why after 5 years Obi and I are still doing it: We think men are actually really easy to understand. For example, if I were a woman and I saw a cute guy I wanted to talk to, this is ...
I don’t understand why you do this
November 22nd, 2016 at 11:21 am EDTHey babe, Booda here. Maybe you can explain something to me… I’m on Bumble, which is kinda fun, I’ll admit. Swipe, swipe, chat. Swipe, swipe, chat…it’s like a video game for dating. But here’s the thing I don’t understand: Most of the ...
Ask me ANYTHING
August 3rd, 2016 at 5:35 pm EDTHey babe, Booda here. I’d like to brag for a minute. Obi and I are really, really good at "The Questions Game". It’s a game we love to play on dates as a way of creating intimacy and closeness through asking and answering vulnerable questions. Th ...
we needs to talk
July 19th, 2016 at 2:32 pm EDTHey boo, (I actually just got schooled by a “millennial” on the actual use of the word ‘boo’, how and when it should be applied, the tone and inflection needed, etcetera. More on that in a moment…) But that’s not why we need to talk… W ...
THIS is the greatest song ever
July 18th, 2016 at 9:46 am EDTIs “Dancing in the Dark” the greatest song ever made? I know it’s silly––what the F is Bruce Springsteen doing in your inbox?! But I’m lying in bed here, a couple glasses of sangria in me, and I’m listening to these lyrics for maybe the ...
What do you want?
May 3rd, 2016 at 3:43 pm EDTI’m sitting on a plane way above the clouds, listening to Yo-Yo Ma get down on the cello…and it got me thinking about you. Yes...you. Specifically about your choices and decisions. You watch our videos and you listen to the podcasts every week an ...
Obi and Booda are Coming To Your Town...
April 21st, 2016 at 7:00 am EDTHey, Booda here. Boy am I excited about this… For years Obi and I have talked about “Dude Panel Live” and it’s finally happening! We’re hitting the road in my fuel-efficient Prius this July and coming to a city near you. And we need your he ...
I'm getting a #dadbod
April 19th, 2016 at 5:19 pm EDTDon’t judge me. The #dadbod is apparently what all the ladies find sexy (according to Cosmo)—so I’m jumping on the bandwagon. I’m replacing kombucha with Coors Light, morning jogs for cotton joggers, and kale chips with…just…chips. DadBod ...
When It’s Time To Ditch A Guy You’re Dating
April 14th, 2016 at 11:45 am EDTHey babe, Booda here. We just got a question that got me all passionate and rant-y, so I thought I’d write to you and talk about it. A listener wrote in and asked: “Is it possible for a woman to be TOO into sex? A few guys I've slept with make ...
Should I KILL my friend (for being TOO old)?
March 19th, 2016 at 11:13 pm EDTI once had a friend––a crazy, eccentric friend––tell me that if he ever made it to the age of 35 that I should kill him. Yes. Murder. He told me that by then, he should have accomplished everything he ever wanted, and after age 35 you just ge ...