Subject: Everything has to be his idea
Everything has to be his idea
January 24th, 2014 at 4:21 pm EDTSo we got a question from a subscriber today... Sam asks: "Why is he not over his ex, and how can I encourage him to move on?" . . . This one is easy, Sam... It's easy for me to answer and (probably) hard for you to hear. Firstly, I have no idea why ...
A not-so-secret thing men want
January 23rd, 2014 at 2:47 pm EDTPlease excuse what comes next... My head feels like it's in a vice grip and I'm alternating between being extremely cold and deliriously hot... I just arrived to San Diego yesterday for a conference AND Dude Panel Live... But I've been locked in my r ...
Don't be THAT girl
January 22nd, 2014 at 1:24 pm EDTLet me tell you something about Maria, a woman I know: Maria is really attractive. She eats well and has a nice, tight body. Maria is passionate. She even runs her own business. Maria has a lot to say. She likes to jump into conversations even if she ...
Everybody is full of crap
January 21st, 2014 at 3:10 pm EDTEverybody is full of shit. That was the first note of the new year I typed drunkenly into my iPhone at 3:30am in 2013. At the time, I wrote it in anger, but I kept it in my phone because it became more and more profound as the year went on. I'll tel ...
You'll never find love in your sofa cushion
January 20th, 2014 at 8:28 am EDTToday I'm going to buy a new suit. I don't own a suit but I think it's about time. In a few days I'll shake lots of hands at a networking conference. I'm not a big "conference" guy but I'm focused on building my business this year...so it's about tim ...
The 10 "don'ts" of dating dudes
January 18th, 2014 at 12:21 pm EDTDon't overthink anything. Don't put words in his mouth. Don't date future "potential" versions of him. Don't shake his hand. Don't wait for him to become what you need. Don't hold back. Don't be a jerk. Don't forget who You are. Don't be sloppy. DON' ...
Use THIS powerful trick from an old shampoo commercial
January 16th, 2014 at 12:09 pm EDTWow, so I'm about to give you a powerful trick that's going to blow your mind... It actually comes from a series of old Herbal Essences commercials from the 90s––and if you use it, I guarantee that men will trip over themselves to meet you. Okay, ...
How to date a superhero, part deaux
January 15th, 2014 at 1:38 pm EDTSomeone really smart once said that a hero ‘is a self-driven, value intoxicated doer.’ I would say the same thing about most guys. And if he’s not already, then he aspires to be. 97.3% of a man’s daily thoughts are about his purpose in life. ...
What makes men happy
January 14th, 2014 at 12:53 pm EDTFrank Ocean is singing through my laptop speakers... I just killed a big glass of orange juice... I'm writing this letter to you... And I'm happy. I was actually just talking to Dave Booda about this earlier today. What could a woman do to make a ma ...
You inspire me
January 13th, 2014 at 1:46 pm EDTWhen we first started, I told you that I wanted some new friends and that I like the idea of talking to you regularly. As much as you think that you’re benefitting from these letters, I’m benefitting a lot from writing them. I love hearing your t ...