Subject: Have you even asked?

Don't know how/what to do to get to the next level? Time to ask.

Success Without Sacrifice

N E W S L E T T E R

Anti-hustle strategies for lawyers who want more control, impact, and life.

The worst career advice I got as a young lawyer? “Keep your head down and do great work.”


It might be good advice if your goal is to bill as many hours as you can. But you should be doing more (and do things a bit differently, too) if your goal is to develop yourself as a whole lawyer.


And that is true whether or not you want to become a partner, start your own law firm, go in-house, or leave law entirely.


[It's also true once you're promoted to partnership, if you want to make good money and meet the expectations of your firm].


Billing as much as possible doesn’t ensure you:

  • Get the best possible opportunities.

  • Learn everything you should as you progress.

  • Develop your non-legal skills (necessary for progression anywhere).

The problem is that most lawyers have no idea what is expected of them. Maybe (maybe) they have annual meetings with some feedback. But that feedback is often not specific enough about what's expected for promotion.


And when it comes to promotion (also when it comes to how you get paid once you're a partner), a lot of law firms don't have much in writing.


Instead, you hear things like “act like a partner to make partner”.


A lot of lawyers trying to progress assume this means leadership is hiding something. Or that they just don't care.


Not true.


WHAT'S REALLY HOLDING YOU BACK

Discomfort

Look, firm leadership is busy. They are working hard to serve clients, build their book, manage the firm, and have a life.


And like most people, they assume.


They assume you know (and if you don't, you'll ask). Because you're smart and curious (and also, an adult).


And yet, few attorneys actually ask due to:

  • Fear of looking incompetent.

  • Worry about appearing "pushy".

  • Not wanting an uncomfortable conversation.

And so, they hope that hard work speaks for itself. Sorry, but it doesn't.

GET OVER IT AND

Just. Ask.

It’s time to get over these things.

  • Ask what they want to see from you specifically.

  • Ask where your gaps are (everyone has them).

  • Ask why certain people were promoted and others weren't (get specifics!).

  • Ask what "acting like a partner" means at YOUR firm (get examples).

[BTW: this is part of "acting like a partner/leader" before making it].


Should leadership be more proactive and provide more information? Yes. But waiting for that to happen won't help your career.


And although most of them DO care, they don't care nearly as much about your progression as you do.


Your next move, Friend?


Identify the things you don't know that you need to know to progress.


Schedule time with a decision-maker. Come prepared with specific questions. Take notes. Follow up.


The path to partnership (or your next level, whatever that may be) shouldn't be a mystery. But if it is at your firm, you have two choices:

  • Wait and hope.

  • Or ask and know.

Which will you choose?


XO,

Heather


P.S. Not in a law firm or even a lawyer? This lesson still applies to you.


P.P.S. Want to know what law firms are really looking for when considering you for partnership? Listen to this week’s installment of Life & Law >>> here.

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A B O U T

H E A T H E R

Former BigLaw partner. Lawyer coach. Cancer survivor. Mom x2. Recovering overachiever.


I traded in my $2.5MM+ practice to help lawyers create the kind of success that doesn’t come at the cost of their well-being.


Learn more about me here.