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| Victoria Zaitz, MLA, MTP
Intuit. Empower. Awaken. |
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| Welcome! Here's the weekly Energetic Forecast. The theme for this week is Self Confidence!
We just came out of the total lunar eclipse in Libra on Saturday, which was the topping on the eclipse cake. It takes a while in a lot of cases for what is brought out by the eclipses to take form. Many of my clients are still seeing the effects of that in the form of chaos and major changes, it all seems to roll out in stages or cycles. We can expect more layers to be revealed as the weeks unfold but there is a sense that we are coming to some major conclusions and moments of clarity. Yay!
Self Confidence. Where does it come from? It comes from knowing yourself. Who you are on a very deep level as a divine energy being, and who you are as a personality that has come here for a few key purposes. As you discover what your unique gifts and talents are that you offer to the world, and you get to put those into practice, you develop a sense of self-efficacy or self-actualization. You are able to reach higher levels of your potentials as your life unfolds. Even though it may still be challenging, you are in a state of growth.
A lack of self confidence creates a great deal of problems, especially in relating to others. Think about it. If you don't really know who you are, what is it exactly that you are bringing to a relationship? If you find it very hard to be yourself, then you will find it very hard to have authentic relationships that really nurture your soul. If you are not coming from that confident and true and whole place within, your relationships will be largely based on ego and utilitarianism. It is similar to points I have made in past newsletters about self love, but self confidence also has another element, and that is the ability to be assertive. Not aggressive, but assertive, in being able to put forth your masculine energy into the world--to do good things, to affect change, to take action, to take a risk. Self confidence is what radiates from self love.
Client Story: Sometimes in a reading, we get a boost of confidence from the other side :) One of the most memorable readings I ever did was for an 11 year old girl whose father committed suicide. He came through, not uncommonly, taking responsibility for his own passing; realizing that he had deeply affected those who were left behind, including his daughter. This beautiful girl had issues for most of her short life in believing in herself and she was picked on a great deal in school. But she did excel in her creative side and that subject really lit her up, especially when she received deep acknowledgement from the father that she missed that she could be successful in pursuing her talents. Our dear young ones need to hear this kind of support from their parents, and acceptance of who they really are, not just who the adults around them might want them to be. This message meant the world to this little girl and brought her tears of sadness and joy to know her father believed in her. :)
Updates:
Webinar Tonight! Healthy & Unhealthy Relationship Patterns. Plenty of time to register for that here.
Registration is now live for my workshop in Lily Dale, NY this summer called Journey to Spiritual Partnerships on July 2nd! Here is a link to the Facebook giveaway to be a personal assistant for this event. Just like my page and comment on the post to enter!
Mark your calendars for the Pittsburgh leg of the US Tour of the Isha Center from Nepal! July 27-Aug 3rd.
If you missed any of my webinars, Real Talk: Practical Self Love, Meditation: How and Why to do it, and Psychic Development 101, you can purchase them here. I am also offering a monthly subscription to my webinars for $19.99/month (at the same link.) Included with that is unlimited access to all previous webinars and all future webinars in the Wednesday Webinar Whizdom series. You can participate live and ask questions or just subscribe to the recordings. I will also be having special, members-only webinars for subscribers. If you are going to subscribe, let me know and don't use the regular link to sign up for webinars, you will have special access. :)
May you Intuit, Empower, and Awaken,
Victoria |
| | Intuit. By truly and deeply really listening to yourself and the deeper nudges from your soul, you grow in self confidence simply from your ability to intuit the nature of your true self, and of course in trusting that. Your intuition can also help you to understand why you are not confident about something and where your fears may come from. Get quiet and ask--maybe you will discover the programming that is stopping you from really going for it in life. |
| Empower. A lot of developing self confidence comes from your ability to try and take a risk. Remember that there are no mistakes in life, only learnings and lessons, so failure is not actually an option. :) Empower yourself to try, just one little step can lead to another step and in this way, we reach improvement and deeper ability.
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| Awaken.
If our self confidence only comes from our ego or personality self, we will always feel we are falling short in some way. As we awaken to our true nature in self realization, we understand our true limited potential and how we are always deeply supported by the universe through our connection to Source. It is not so much what we do, but that we feel our souls support that mission. We discover the part of us that has never failed when we awaken to our true nature.
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Soul Connections and Self Confidence |
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Self confidence is a common lesson in soul connections. If a connection with someone makes you feel in any way less than--it is due to one of two things: 1) it is not a soul connection but rather a toxic relationship or 2) it is simply pointing out your lack of self confidence as something that you need to address.
What types of things would trigger that awareness? You may feel very strongly connected to someone but you are afraid to express that for fear of the repercussions. So a soul connection would come along, something too powerful for you to ignore, that then drives you to express this. In that case what really matters in a soul sense may not be the result of that, but the lesson exists in your ability to do it in the first place.
Maybe your soul connection reflects to you everything positive that you would like to be. But through your idealization of that person, you are made painfully aware of your own shortcomings. In that example the lesson is for you to try to begin removing what stands in your way of developing those qualities.
Maybe your soul connection triggers a full blown spiritual awakening. In that example, any ideas that are not self confident also stand out as not fitting in with your new, current level of awareness. Or maybe it is because you realize how deeply your soul connection cares for you, that you come to understand you are really not as bad as you thought. :)
SO many ways to learn about the subject, as long as you are willing to learn. |
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| Wednesday Webinar Whizdom
April 8--Healthy and Unhealthy Relationship Patterns, 8pm EST. $11.11 Register here
April 15--Understanding Soul Mates, Twin Flames and Soul Connections Part 1, 8pm EST. $11.11, Register here
April 29--Help for the Empath or Highly Sensitive Person, 8pm EST. $11.11, stay tuned
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