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| Victoria Zaitz, MLA, MTP
Intuit. Empower. Awaken. |
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| Welcome! Here's the weekly Energetic Forecast. The theme for this week is Letting Go and Self Forgiveness.
It feels to me that many people have settled some from the "eclipse season" as it is known in astrology, as a result of that, it is likely that we are now more clear about our paths. It is a matter of taking those ideas, working through them, and applying them practically in our lives. There have been a lot of twists and turns in situations with my clients, but--there has been a huge jump in clarity. I expect that much of what we have learned over the past month will take a while to integrate. Be patient with self!
Letting Go and Self Forgiveness. "It's never too late to be the person you want to be." It's especially never too late to be the person you really are, the person you came here to be. Many of us are truly, our own worst enemies and harshest critics. Our "shoulda, woulda, coulda, if only" can drive us batshit nuts. It is truly our minds and the realm of our thoughts that inflicts this kind of pain. Many of us, unfortunately, do not even know truly what forgiveness is, they may have never been forgiven. They may have never been able to forgive what has happened to them. Other than it being preached as a religious concept, it escapes the notice of most. My insight is to begin with self forgiveness. But, that is hard also for many. These ideals of perfection that we see all around us can convince us that we are the only "defective" ones. But, no one is perfect.
One of the tools I have found effective is the concept of radical forgiveness. You can read more about that here in one of my blog posts. It can also be applied to self forgiveness. Self forgiveness requires self love, compassion, and understanding to be directed to the self. You must understand the deeper, inner circumstances that have led to your behavior. Once that is understood, healing can happen, and you can let go and forgive yourself. We are all here on a learning adventure. If you did not make "mistakes," you would not be learning. Please, try to find a way to forgive yourself for not knowing and understanding everything as it occurs. Let go of your attachment to blaming and punishing yourself. Learn from your "mistakes," get your lessons, and move forward, knowing that there are many who love you, who will forgive you, sometimes before you can even forgive yourself.
Client Story: Clients have expressed to me their desire to take their own life as a result of "mistakes" they have made. This is a very sad place to be and one that cries out for self forgiveness. (If you feel this way, please do not delay in getting help, call the National Suicide Prevention line 1-800-273-8255.) A few of these beloved clients have expressed this because of the effect they feared their mistakes would have on those around them. The really great news is this: our fears about the potential consequences of our mistakes are almost never as extreme as the thoughts that can plague us. It is never too late to learn from your experience, and no matter what has happened in your life, self forgiveness and often forgiveness from others is very possible. With healing work, many of my clients have been able to see that they are valuable, so valuable, and this is SO above and beyond any mistake they have made.
Updates:
Butler, PA peeps! This Saturday I will be at the Butler Paranormal Conference, doing readings! You can check out the event here
The next webinar in the Wednesday Webinar Whizdom Series is Help for the Empath or Highly Sensitive Person, April 29th, 8pm EST. Great for self-discovery and learning how to navigate your emotional sensitivity, which is a strength, not an insult! LOL! To watch the video and register, go here
Registration is now live for my workshop in Lily Dale, NY this summer called Journey to Spiritual Partnerships on July 2nd! Here is a link to the Facebook giveaway to be a personal assistant for this event. Just like my page and comment on the post to enter!
Mark your calendars for the Pittsburgh leg of the US Tour of the Isha Center from Nepal! July 27-Aug 3rd.
If you missed any of my webinars, Real Talk: Practical Self Love, Meditation: How and Why to do it, Psychic Development 101, Healthy and Unhealthy Relationship Patterns, and Understanding Soul Mates, Twin Flames and Soul Connections, Part 1, you can purchase them here.
I am also offering a monthly subscription to my webinars for $19.99/month (at the same link.) Included with that is unlimited access to all previous webinars and all future webinars in the Wednesday Webinar Whizdom series. You can participate live and ask questions or just subscribe to the recordings. I will also be having special, members-only webinars for subscribers. If you are going to subscribe, let me know and don't use the regular link to sign up for webinars, you will have special access. :)
May you Intuit, Empower, and Awaken,
Victoria
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| | Intuit.
One way to look at self-forgiveness is, as much as possible, what can be called honoring the gut as prevention. This is not something to blame yourself about in hindsight that you did not listen to your intuition. But, it can help you to learn about the signs that your intuition gives you and to listen better to it in order to prevent further harm, to yourself or to others. If you feel something is out of tune, PLEASE LISTEN! At least, check it out first before moving any further. |
| Empower. It requires a certain amount of belief in yourself to empower yourself to think about letting go and forgiving yourself. Please understand that those who forgive are embracing an act of self love, those who forgive themselves are also strong of soul, opening to their own vulnerability and accepting it. Empower yourself with the willingness to LEARN from what has happened in your life, rather than to attach a feeling of your innate worth to what has happened in your life.
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| Awaken.
When we understand that we are a soul that came here to learn, that no one and nothing can possibly destroy our inner divinity and worth, we awaken to our true self and true nature. We can then embrace our ego self with love as a necessary part of learning and coming home to ourselves. |
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Soul Connections & Self Forgiveness |
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In the realm of deep soul connections, twin flames and soul mates, self forgiveness will be a necessary lesson.
These connections must first be recognized for what they are--the movers and shakers of your life, a profound way to awaken you, to trigger realizations and healing, and to bring to light many things you may have been unwilling to see.
Usually, not everyone will know this right away. Forgive yourself for not knowing, for not understanding. And please, for the love of all that is divine and good, do not beat yourself up for hurting you, or your soul mate or twin flame.
This is a hard learning curve for everyone. If an ego knew what was in store for it in terms of its evolutionary path, it would not have signed up for this trip to illumination.
In these relationships, there can be so many triggers of things that need to heal, you are bound to screw up, say things that you don't mean, speak from a less than evolved place, get angry, misinterpret, and on and on. The important thing to do here is to learn, that is what these connections are for. Sometimes we have to be sure we are making a mistake, so we make it a few times. LOL! If you can learn and get the point and especially release the emotions behind what is being triggered, you stand an excellent chance of not repeating things in your life and of healing.
Twin flames especially are truly here to cement into 3D reality a new template of relating that must include self forgiveness and forgiveness for the twin. This is beautifully possible by the innate level of deep compassion, understanding and unconditional love that is present in these unions. Open yourself to that, and healing will for sure occur.
Always stop to understand yourself and the other. From there, forgiveness is possible.
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| Wednesday Webinar Whizdom
April 29--Help for the Empath or Highly Sensitive Person, 8pm EST. $11.11, register here
May 13--Understanding Soul Mates, Twin Flames and Soul Connections Part 2, 8pm EST. $11.11, stay tuned
May 27--Understanding Soul Mates, Twin Flames and Soul Connections, Part 3, 8pm EST. $11.11, stay tuned
Events
June 28--Sterling Yoga Spirit Fair, stay tuned |
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