Subject: 5 BORING things you do on dates

5 BORING things you do on dates

June 9th, 2014 at 8:44 pm EDT

Hey babe, So many exciting things happening… For one, Booda and I have a podcast on iTunes. (I know! More Dude wisdom in a different form.) You’ll get answers to your questions and have a laugh at the same time. We have 4 episodes up and we’l ...

5 ways to make ANY man want to commit (welcome to the inside)

June 5th, 2014 at 5:52 pm EDT

Hey beautiful, It’s Obi here… And I want to thank you right now for registering to view “5 Ways to Make ANY Man Want to Commit”. If you haven't seen it yet, you should click on the link below to watch it immediately. (Thousands of women h ...

Hey...I still love you

June 3rd, 2014 at 3:53 pm EDT

Hey you, I know it's been some time since we last talked. So much has changed but there are a few things that have stayed the same: I still drink green juices as I write to you, I'm still wearing v-neck t-shirts, the sunsets in LA remain epic...and I ...

Everything has to be his idea

January 24th, 2014 at 4:21 pm EDT

So we got a question from a subscriber today... Sam asks: "Why is he not over his ex, and how can I encourage him to move on?" . . . This one is easy, Sam... It's easy for me to answer and (probably) hard for you to hear. Firstly, I have no idea why ...

A not-so-secret thing men want

January 23rd, 2014 at 2:47 pm EDT

Please excuse what comes next... My head feels like it's in a vice grip and I'm alternating between being extremely cold and deliriously hot... I just arrived to San Diego yesterday for a conference AND Dude Panel Live... But I've been locked in my r ...

Don't be THAT girl

January 22nd, 2014 at 1:24 pm EDT

Let me tell you something about Maria, a woman I know: Maria is really attractive. She eats well and has a nice, tight body. Maria is passionate. She even runs her own business. Maria has a lot to say. She likes to jump into conversations even if she ...

Everybody is full of crap

January 21st, 2014 at 3:10 pm EDT

Everybody is full of shit. That was the first note of the new year I typed drunkenly into my iPhone at 3:30am in 2013. At the time, I wrote it in anger, but I kept it in my phone because it became more and more profound as the year went on. I'll tel ...

You'll never find love in your sofa cushion

January 20th, 2014 at 8:28 am EDT

Today I'm going to buy a new suit. I don't own a suit but I think it's about time. In a few days I'll shake lots of hands at a networking conference. I'm not a big "conference" guy but I'm focused on building my business this year...so it's about tim ...

The 10 "don'ts" of dating dudes

January 18th, 2014 at 12:21 pm EDT

Don't overthink anything. Don't put words in his mouth. Don't date future "potential" versions of him. Don't shake his hand. Don't wait for him to become what you need. Don't hold back. Don't be a jerk. Don't forget who You are. Don't be sloppy. DON' ...

Use THIS powerful trick from an old shampoo commercial

January 16th, 2014 at 12:09 pm EDT

Wow, so I'm about to give you a powerful trick that's going to blow your mind... It actually comes from a series of old Herbal Essences commercials from the 90s––and if you use it, I guarantee that men will trip over themselves to meet you. Okay, ...