Subject: Positional Power is Like a Bowl of Chocolate

Just because you can reach for it, doesn't mean you should.

Positional Power is Like a Bowl of Chocolate

Just because you can reach for it, doesn't mean you should.

Hey Friend


Picture a bowl of chocolate sitting beside your keyboard.


Not hidden away in a cupboard where you have to think about whether you really want it. Right there beside you. Close enough that you can reach for a piece without even noticing you've done it.


Positional power is a lot like that bowl of chocolate.


It's easy to access. As leaders, you have the title, the authority, and often, you have the final say. Most of us don't consciously decide to use our position to influence people. We use it because it's there...and we're under pressure, or running late, or we haven't thought something through as well as we could have.

Someone asks a question we don't have the energy to answer, we use our position to shortcut the conversation (instead of taking people on the journey).


What I find interesting about positional power is that we're not just shortcutting a conversation, we're shortcutting how we lead more broadly.

Instead of proper planning we allow things to become urgent. Instead of realistic targets we push people to achieve "stretch goals". Instead of healthy, two-way communication, we lean on the cascade of information that comes with hierarchy. Instead of building a compelling case for change, we rely on our title to push our agenda.


The problem is that positional power still works.


People don't question it, nor do they challenge it. If it's overused you'll find your people will stop offering alternative perspectives too. In the short term, it feels more efficient but in the long term, it's incredibly expensive.


Every time you use positional power, you teach people something about the environment they're operating in. You teach them that curiosity is conditional and that challenging the status quo won't always be welcomed. You encourage them to have independent thinking...right up until the point that it becomes inconvenient.


If you're wondering why your team aren't taking ownership, or relying on you to make all the decisions, and take all the responsibility, then positional power might be the reason.


The leaders creating sustainable performance today aren't relying on their position to get results. They're building trust and influencing rather than directing. They're creating environments where people contribute because they want to, not because they have to.


If you want people to think critically, take ownership and bring their best thinking to work, the first question isn't whether they're capable of doing it. The question is  whether you've created the conditions that allow them to.


If you'd like support building influence-based leadership capability across your organisation, let's have a conversation.


Through executive coaching and leadership development programs, I help leaders create cultures built on trust, ownership and sustainable performance rather than hierarchy and compliance.


Shelley 😁


Shelley Flett.

Leadership Trainer, Facilitator & Coach | Shelley Flett Pty Ltd 

M: 0407 522 888 | E: shelley@shelleyflett.com | W: shelleyflett.com

What are you teaching your people through the use of positional power?


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