I think Robert Kegan's work on adult development is relevant for this conversation. He talks about a shift from what is called the Socialised Mind to the Self-Authoring Mind.
The Socialised Mind looks to the environment for answers. It wants to know how things are done here. It seeks approval, certainty and belonging. Most organisations are built around reinforcing this way of thinking.
The Self-Authoring Mind is different. It develops the confidence to think independently while remaining open to learning. It allows us to hold multiple perspectives without feeling threatened by them. It can disagree without creating division and can lead without relying on hierarchy.
When I look at the strongest leaders I work with, I think this is the shift they've made. They've stopped asking, "How do I get people to do what I want?"
And instead ask, "How do I create the conditions where people want to contribute?"
It might seem like a subtle difference, but it changes everything.
The future of leadership won't belong to the people with the most authority. It will belong to the people who know how to create trust, ownership, curiosity and commitment in others.
This shift is one of the most important pieces of leadership work any of us can do.
If you're ready to make that shift yourself, or you'd like your leadership team to build the capability to influence without relying on hierarchy, I'd love to help.
This is exactly the work I'm doing through executive coaching and leadership development programs.
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Shelley Flett
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