Hi, it’s Sterling.
The other day I gave you the first,
little step in securing a future so bright you need shades. :-) (Step 1 -
Identify the bull in the herd)
As promised here are some more easy little steps to
take:
Step 2 - Separate the bull from the
herd
You should never look a bull in the
eyes, nor should we stare down our own inner struggles. Giving focused
attention to your obstacle can increase the tension and allow your bull to go
wild.
Instead, try to find the root
cause.
Some people spend time toiling on
the internet or watching TV, but focusing on watching TV won't change the way
you feel or act. Rather, identify the main reason you're experiencing the
problem. Why is it that you feel frustrated, unhappy or anxious? What is the
real, 'deep down' reason that's causing you dissatisfaction?
Once you have identified the
obstacle (and separated the bull from the herd) next…
Step 3 - Use the bull to grow the
herd
After identifying the obstacle, you
have a chance to embrace it and use it to your advantage.
You simply need to find a way to
meet the needs of your bull-ish urges, while not detracting from your main
goals.
Many of us have a need for nearly
constant stimulation. I like to listen to music (rather than watching TV for
example) while doing other things to provide that stimulus without completely
distracting me from the task at hand.
Whatever you see as being your biggest
obstacle, you can always get to a point where it can be neutralized, or even
better, used to your advantage.
The best way to get started is to
practice visualizing yourself in the life you want, with clear intention and
emotion.
And to help you do that, first
figure out what your #1 Success Blocker is, so you can more easily attract
all of the things that matter to you the most. balance throughout the day.
