In other words, self-criticism is not a natural state. It’s a learned state. And what can be learned, can be unlearned. That’s when it’s time to put your mind into a training program. What the critical voice needs to know from you is that it’s not in charge anymore. In the Divine Feminine practices I teach, we call this position of power—becoming a woman of your choosing. There are ways to lovingly teach your mind what thoughts you will allow. It’s important that the training be a loving process, because those thoughts are usually connected to a wounded inner child. Plus, we don’t want to inadvertently create more harmful energy when establishing boundaries within our own minds. 😉 |