January can be chaotic with self-promises, resolutions, pressure to be better or different or thinner, to exercise more, to put yourself out there for more business, friends or dates... Yikes! (insert big, deep breath here)
Friend, grab the lessons you learned so far this year. Let go of what didn't go your way (yet), and step into peace of mind that you are exactly who and where you are supposed to be right now. 🥰
I want to share an important recurring lesson in Positive Women Rock lately with a client story for a look at how wild and unexpected this lesson can be.
And thankfully, many times it's just full of peace and calm as it takes place. 😊
THE LESSON: The right people will come into your life at the right time. People will leave your life at the right time.
Notice both of those include "at the right time". 😉
True client story...
I usually require clients to stop all therapy and body work for the 30-days they work with me. That way, when their success story goes on the Positive Women Rock website, it is purely about the results of OUR work together.
Recently, I began working with a client who was still going to a traditional therapist because my gut feeling said "let it go" and to work with her without this requirement.
I was curious, knowing there would be a good lesson in the mix. 😉
After working together a few weeks and watching her REALLY step into her power, something interesting happened...
She came to our call and when asked how she was, her response was "pretty shattered".
The traditional therapist who'd been helpful to her for over a year, had screamed at her during their session, saying (among other things) that she was mean and a jerk and was hurting the people she loved!
When she asked why he was yelling at her and saying those things, he said it was in response to her strong energy... and that it was HER fault he was yelling.
The funny thing is that she took "strong energy" as a compliment, and so did I because we'd been working on that! 🤗 Her energy was strong, positive and high frequency.
Did I suggest she end their patient-therapist relationship? NO.
I did, however, refer back to what I taught her in her VIP Day (1st day of an Inner Power Breakthrough) to perfectly explain reasons (no excuse) for his behavior.
The explanation didn't give him permission to be abusive.
It simply explained why she wasn't at fault for anything he said or did. And just imagine that most patients would have spiraled downward with a trusted therapist or other authority figure saying such things... and in that way!
She'd been traumatized but we quickly released that in our session. ❤️
She fired him the following week (her decision) with great clarity and confidence in her value and solid boundaries for anyone who doesn't treat her accordingly. 😊
If he (or any) therapist knew the simple basics my clients learn on day 1 with me, this never would have happened.
The lesson here is this, Friend... people come and go from your life at the right time.
I came into her life and he left her life because she was growing.
She outgrew him - not knowing what to do when his patient became strong - and she grew into me - the more powerful, high frequency, positive path she needed.
No need for YOU to stay stuck with what was when you are ready to grow forward. 🙂 You are way too important for that! And I see you. ❤️
