It’s time, it’s time!!

Im so excited. And I'm so ready to share this with you.

There's a very important, time-sensitive invitation in this (rather long) Love Letter today.

It's a once-off opportunity. So, let me explain what's happening.

Recently I listened to a crazy Canadian guy passionately talking about how powerful it is to bring like-minded people together.

And it sparked something in me.

It made me think of you.

Of us.
You know, those of us who are sensitive and feel deeply.
And care so much.
Who try so hard to be good and get things 'right'.
Who look after everyone else but forget about ourselves...

And the thing is, people say to me all the time,

“I KNOW what I should do…

But I just can’t get myself to do it.”

You know that moment when you're standing in front of the open fridge trying to decide which thing to take - the one you’ll feel good about, or the one you won’t…
Or your friend does that thing again and you want to speak up but you’re too scared…
Or someone asks you to do something you really don't want to do but it will be rude to say no…

These are tough moments.

You know what you'd prefer to choose, but then you get scared of the implications, or you think, "I can't do THAT!" and you freeze, or you land up doing something you don't really want. 

And then things go badly, or life feels hard and joyless…

You feel anxious, have less energy, your health starts to decline... 

and you don't know why.

It’s because you are turning away from your inner truth. From loving yourself.

Many of us just don’t know how to love ourselves in our daily choices.

And it's not because we're broken or faulty.

We have real reasons for it!

Maybe you had a difficult childhood, or carry trauma that makes it hard to know how to care for yourself now…
Maybe you’re a recovering ‘good girl’ or perfectionist and that inner critic is LOUD...

Maybe no one ever taught you what healthy self-care, or boundary-setting looks like…
Maybe you live with ADHD, or you're neuro-spicy, and you struggle to keep up with routines that are meant to “help”…
Maybe you’re sensitive and unsure how to care for yourself in ways that actually work…
Maybe you often don’t even know what your truth is, or how to tell what you need in the moment…

See what I mean? Real reasons!

And it made me start to wonder…

What if there was a place just for us?

A place to practise self-care in a way that doesn’t feel like one more thing to get right…

But actually helps you feel OK in yourself.

A softly-held place where you’re allowed to rest. To breathe. To remember who you are….

A kind of home, with a chosen family, who gets it - because they're the same...

And that’s when the idea began to swirl.

I don’t have it all figured out yet.

It’s still gently forming in my mind and heart.

But I know this much:

I’m creating a membership space for us.

Its name is The Portal of Permission.

It’s not a course. 

Not a program. 

Not a fix-your-life checklist.

It’s a space. 

A rhythm. 

A practice.
A place to come home to yourself.

So you can actually finally thrive in your life - not just survive it.

And learn how to gently, consistently love yourself each day.

Not in a superficial way.

I’m talking about deep, meaningful self-care...

The kind that changes how you feel in your body, how you move through your day, how you make your choices...

Imagine how relieved and free you will feel when you can regularly make more self-loving decisions - in your food, your health, your relationships, your money, your boundaries....?

And the thing is...

You won't be alone.

You'll be with others who are also learning, trying, stumbling, and starting again...

So you won’t feel like a failure.

You’ll just be one of us, learning to come home to yourself, to trust yourself again, one loving choice at a time.

Life feels safer, more hopeful, better, when you choose things that are good for you.

So inside the Portal, I’ll be with you, guiding you step by step through the life-changing process I use with my private clients and in my books and courses.

We will go slowly. Kindly. Gently.

Together.
One gentle, real-world moment at a time.

So here’s the thing.

This is the very beginning.

As I said, I don’t have it all figured out yet.

But I have lots of ideas and I’ve created a supportive, loving framework for you...

And now I need the right people to help me shape it into what it’s meant to be.

I’m opening the doors to a small founding circle.

It can be you if it feels right for you.

When you join as a founding member, your rate will be just R300 / $30 a month and it will stay that way for as long as you remain in the community, even as the price goes up. And it will soon. This is the only time it will ever be this price.

It's way cheaper than one therapy session yet you'll have access to support all month long (that's another reason I want to do this - to make this work more accessible!)

But, beyond the savings…

You'll be a founding member.

You will get to help shape this magical space from the inside out.

You'll get to make it what you need.

I’m building something I deeply believe in.

A soulful, supportive membership space for people like us who want to learn how to honour themselves, listen to their truth, and live with more clarity, care, and courage.

So I want your voice. Your ideas. Your insight. Your feedback so we can build it together in the way that best serves you.

This early version will be small - and that’s a gift.

More personal support for you. More chance to really connect - with me and the others on the journey.

So if you're curious… if this feels like something your heart wants to explore…
If something in you is whispering, this might be for me... 

And you want to get in early at the founding member rate (and keep it, always)…

Then just reply to this email and tell me, “I’m interested.”

That’s it. Just a soft step forward.

The next self-loving choice.

Let’s create something beautiful, together.

What do you say?

NB. To be clear, this is a one-time offer that will not come again. This offer is open for one week - from today until midnight on Wednesday 2nd July only. Then it will close so that we can begin to grow and create together. The next time The Portal opens the price will have gone up.

We're going to build a magical space together.

Click Reply now and say, "I'm interested".

If you loved yourself, what would you choose to do now?