For years now, I’ve sat with beautiful people...
And I’ve heard the same things over and over again:
“I’m good at looking after everyone… but I don't know how to look after myself.”
“I wish I could say no without feeling anxious or guilty afterwards.”
“I try to do and be everything to everyone, and my truth is completely lost in the process.”
“I know I need to love myself more but I don’t know how to do it.”
If this sounds like you, I wanted to tell you...
You're not alone.
I know that place.
So many of us do.
It's like a quiet ache. A gentle desperation.
A sort of constant, thrumming grief of having lost yourself somewhere.
A deep, un-nameable longing to come home to yourself.
To your needs. Your rhythms. Your truth.
To be able to rest...
to say no...
to do what you actually yearn to do...
For your life to be yours!
To be able to love yourself enough to make the changes you've been saying you want to make - in your eating and your money and your relationships and your work...
I wanted to tell you...
I hear you.
And from all these years of helping people learn how to come home to themselves...
A dream has been unfolding within me.
For us.
The people who feel so much...
Who give too much...
The recovering good girls...
The burnt-out helpers.
The secretly magical ones who’ve learned to mask and hide their light to survive.
Who can hold space for the whole world — but forget to hold it for themselves...
Who have read all the books but still struggle to trust their inner voice...
What if we had a community...?
A gentle home for us.
A pocket of the world we dream of...
A place to learn the kind of self-care that doesn’t feel like one more thing to get right…
Practices and kindnesses that help you finally feel right within yourself.
Even while living in this challenging world, with all the people, and all the demands, and all the politics, and world events...
What if we had a Portal of Permission....?
For us.
With others like us...
Supporting each other to make those self-loving choices that change everything.
Not a course.
Not a program.
A space. A practice. A homecoming.
Next week I’ll be inviting a small group of founding members to help me shape The Portal of Permission from the inside out.
If this stirs you somehow...
If it excites you...
If it tugs at your heart...
Make sure to read next Wednesday's email quickly!
It'll be a time-limited opportunity to join and help me create this home-space for us.
Book it now. Make a note for yourself.
I'll see you next Wednesday.
With love and excitement,
Eilat
Daring-Decisions Teacher
'Helping sensitive souls make self-loving choices that change everything.'
If you loved yourself, how would you listen to your heart now?
