Subject: A truth to accept

Why what's right for you now (or was right for you in the past) won't be right forever.

Success Without Sacrifice

N E W S L E T T E R

Anti-hustle strategies for lawyers who want more control, impact, and life.

Several years into my legal career, I kept asking, "Was this a mistake?"


The "this" was:

  • My then-current law firm.

  • My practice area.

  • Law itself.

But then I realized that no, nothing had been a mistake. The lawyers I initially worked with were stellar; they trained me well. I wanted that.


But my initial firm wasn't the right fit for me to be a partner. It was too hierarchical and not entrepreneurial enough to meet my values or needs long-term.


So, I found a place that was aligned (where I eventually made partner and built my book, happily). And later, after practicing for over 18 years, I was led out of law entirely.


Leading me here.


Each move made sense for who I was at the time.

THE LESSON:

What's Right At One Point In Time Won't Be Right Forever (And That's Normal)

My client (Keith) is a perfect example of this, too.


After realizing he wasn't going to make partner in a law firm that he had outgrown, he went to a small, entrepreneurial firm that promised to let him grow his book (his way).


He found a great mentor there. He had room to grow his book on his own terms. And what was promised was actually delivered.


Two years later, he was a partner with a fast-growing practice.


Here's where things got interesting...


That perfect-fit law firm was no longer a fit for his growing practice.


He needed a larger platform, more support, and more resources than the small, entrepreneurial firm could provide.


So he made another move.


He joined a larger (also values-aligned) firm that could both meet him where he was and support him where he was going.


This move initially felt jarring. Because everything was going so well for him.


Some people (including some colleagues and clients) didn't understand the move. Why make a move to somewhere new? Did moving so quickly mean that the interim firm had been a mistake?


It wasn't a mistake. The entrepreneurial culture, the mentorship, the space to build — all of it was exactly right for that stage.


But he had outgrown what that firm could provide. He was in a new stage, requiring a different type of support.

REMEMBER

Humans Are Built To Grow (Which Necessitates Change)

Humans are built to learn and grow. And different circumstances (e.g., different seasons of life) will impact what we want out of our careers and lives.


Meaning...


There is no “forever” place of employment. There is no “forever” role for you. There is no single right path.


There's only what's right for you now, Friend.


Because what "success" or "balance" or "fulfillment" means to you at 30 will be different from what it means at 40 or 50.


Growth isn't linear. Your career won't be either.


Be willing to reassess as you evolve.


And expect that you'll likely outgrow a place that once served you well. It’s not disloyalty. It's about honoring who you’ve become.


XO,

Heather


P.S. Keith's story has so many life lessons within it. Which is why I asked him to be my guest on the podcast.


Listen to this week's Life & Law >>> here for Keith's full story about how he used his values to transform from “you’re not partner material” to equity partner in the right-fit law firm (just 5 years later).

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MINDSET, LEADERSHIP & BUSINESS COACHING

A B O U T

H E A T H E R

Former BigLaw partner. Lawyer coach. Cancer survivor. Mom x2. Recovering overachiever.


I traded in my $2.5MM+ practice to help lawyers create the kind of success that doesn’t come at the cost of their well-being.


Learn more about me here.