Subject: He practiced so much, but still nervous on stage. Why? 😨

Hello! 

Mark here from The Happy Pianist!

Last week a parent texted me with a concern, which I think can be a common concern for many parents and students too.

“My child was preparing for a live performance last year, and practice a lot at home. He’s very motivated and practice every day to perfect the piece. I can see him play the piece very well.

However, on the actual performance day, he become nervous, missed a few notes. He told me his mind ‘go blank’, which never happen at home. He’s quite disappointed’


Does the same thing happen to you or your child before?

You played so well in practice, but somehow mess up when it’s a performance?

I spoke to the parent for almost 1 hour. But here’s my summary for you.

The difference lies in the mental state.

When you’re practicing, you know you’re just practicing.
- It’s low risk. You can make mistakes. You can play the same pieces again.
- You’re comfortable with the surroundings at own home.
- No one is watching you

When you’re performing, your brain works different.
- It’s high risk. You only have 1 chance. There’s pressure to play perfectly. Once you end, you can’t come back to the stage and say “I want to play again”.
- Different environment, different acoustics. Your instrument don’t sound the same, even though its the same.
- Many eyes are watching you

So the problem to solve:
- Learn how to perform entire piece under pressure
- Learn how to perform in different environments
- Learn to perform with others watching

Solution: Gain performance experience, by performing in low risk settings.

1. Play in different places:
Play on friends’ piano, public pianos at MRT, or even walk into a piano shop and play the piano there.

2. Play in front of different people:
Play to friends, play to strangers at MRT pianos. Get used to being ‘looked at’, and still perform well.

3. Play in low risk settings before the actual performance:
Do a mini concert at home, or the Happy Music Recitals which we organise regularly to give proper stage experience. These low risk settings allow you to build up your confidence (and make mistakes with no consequences). 

These will prepare you for higher stake performances like competitions or exams, or audition. 

We're still in early 2026, and there are many performances you can take on. 

Hope these tips help you in your high stake performance this year! 
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Mark Ng
The Happy Pianist
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