A journey of intimacy. Learn the skills that we were never taught to create the experiences you long for
Do you struggle to relax, to receive, or to experience the intimacy and connection you desire?
Is touch something you long for and at the same time shy away from, or struggle to stay present in your body when you are with someone else?
Touch is our first language, and sadly we have lost the art of giving and receiving touch. We can crave it and also fear it. It can be confusing and lonely and frustrating. So often we do not know where to go to get support, and that can be isolating too. Paralysed by shame, we can be harsh towards ourselves and struggle to reach out when we most need connection.
I offer a series of sessions over a number of weeks or months that starts really slowly and starts right at the beginning: noticing what happens in your body when you experience touch and come into closeness. This journey supports you to grow the intimacy skills you need to stay present in touch, feel confident to give touch, and also expand your capacity to experience pleasure. Building confidence and self-esteem, you learn to be your own primary lover and from that space be able to reach out to others to receive the love and care you have been longing for, in a way that feels manageable and sustainable.
This is an individual journey that we co-curate. We go slowly and gently, building connection and intimacy over time. It includes things like authentic consent, open-hearted boundaries, understanding your needs, finding your desires, and expressing what you want with clarity.
Each session builds on the one before. Learn nervous system regulation skills, communication skills, and how to soften into co-regulation. Feel seen, lovingly held, and witnessed just as you are.
Are you looking for an immersive, holding space to mark a transition? Or someone to support you to move forward where you feel stuck? Or maybe you would like a holiday or retreat that includes tantric massage? A nourishing space for you to deeply relax and receive after giving so much.
I offer immersive experiences.
A retreat. A reset. A space for nourishing self-care. Marking an ending and/or new beginning.
I offer bespoke experiences that are tailored to you: your needs, your desires, a space just for you.
Book yourself a B&B nearby (I can send you recommendations) and then drop into a beautiful experience of being lovingly touched and deeply attuned to, in an embodied journey to deepen your connection to yourself.
I also hold space for tailor-made ritual or marking transitions, thresholds and life stages. Give yourself permission to step into a new expression of yourself. Shedding old skins and embracing the new.
- "Coming out" into a new sexual expression or gender identity
- Life transitions (becoming a parent, new job, children leaving home, sexual awakening, menopause, retirement..)
- Wanting to end old patterns and welcome in new imprints
- Ending a relationship well and inviting the type of relationship you would love to experience
- Birthdays: celebrating your past year and creating intentions for the next cycle around the sun
I would love to give you my undivided attention in a uniquely curated, immersive experience.
I would love to welcome you into my little cabin in my garden, nestled among the trees. A cocoon and safe haven for you to be lovingly held and accepted. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Please email me to start the journey together:
