[Guest Blog by SMART Facilitator Rick Kuplinski]
We enter recovery wounded. We have been hurt (and hurt others) by the costs of our addictive behavior, whether it is damage to our physical and emotional health; our relationships with family, friends, co-workers, the world in general; our security and freedom(e.g. losing a place to live or the ability to drive, being incarcerated); or the actual financial costs of engaging in our behavior and dealing with its aftermath. And then there is also the cost of lost opportunity—all those things we once hoped to do, achieve, experience that got crowded out by our overwhelming focus on doing the thing(s) we now hope to address by participating in SMART Recovery.
So, it is natural that we are filled with feelings of regret as we embark on this journey. Why did I act that way? Why did I do the things I did? How did I let things go so far? What is wrong with me? Am I a bad person? These are questions that weigh on our minds... |