Congratulations!
You've set a goal to improve your kink life. You're doing more than most in giving your sex life the attention it deserves. High fives (or ass slaps) all around! It's been so wonderful to see all the goals people have set for themselves and the progress they've already made. People have joined Fetlife, received spankings, had more sex, given orgasm control over to their partner and generally felt supported through this wonderful community.
This week's mini-challenge is about exploration. Many of us only play (if at all) with the elements of kink we know. Are you willing to stretch your limits?
Remember, your personal limit may simply be to read romance novel with a new kink in it-- whatever you're willing to do.
I have a list of BDSM activities (compiled, I believe by my wonderful colleagues, authors Jennifer Bene and Livia Grant).
My challenge this week is for you to A) take a look at the list and mark a few that interest you. B) Take some action--either research them more, read books with them in it (the Goodreads BDSM group has books categorized by these in their library), ask your partner to help you experience them, post on your Fetlife profile that you're curious about them-- any action!
All action toward your kink life is a win, no matter how small!
Sex
Anal sex
Oral Naked female, dressed male exhibitionism
Anal play
Fisting
Bondage
Electrical
High protocol
Suspension/rope
Whipping
Pain play
Medical play
Humiliation
Pet play
Sybian-orgasm torture
Latex
Role play: teacher, royalty, feral, vampire, law enforcement, medieval
Fire play
Blood play
Needle play
Age play
Breath play
Water/breath play
Water sports
If you haven't already, I invite you to join us in the FB group (90 Day Kink Challenge). To join it, you have to friend me first (a FB rule--feel free to unfriend me after) and then send me an email or FB message and let me know you'd like me to add you to the group. It's a nice way to feel supported and discuss your progress. If you don't want to join the FB group, feel free to reply to these messages.
Reply to this email with your goal, or post it in the Facebook group.
Keeping it kinkily ever after,
Renee
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