Subject: 🫣 The Name of the Game Is Shame (How to Win by Not Playing)

Phoenix Center for Regenetics

🪷 Trauma-busting Collaborative Article by Two Writers Whose Work is Devoted to Healing the Rift of Shame in Our Consciousness đźŞ·

🫣 The Name of the Game Is Shame (How to Win by Not Playing)

Transforming the Nightmare into a Dream Worth Living

Sol Luckman & Emma Lyons

We live in a narcissistic world. Not metaphorically—literally. And the name of its game is shame.

Everywhere we turn—relationships, families, workplaces, media, even our own hearts and minds—emotional energy rooted in shame is the real currency of the gameboard.


Attention us what powers the shame game of the control grid. Most of us start out, much like in THE MATRIX, as little more than batteries charging a system we barely notice, let alone understand.


Some call this raw emotional energy loosh. Controversial? Perhaps. Useful? Absolutely.

This terms conveys an old concept in a new way: a vital force we intuitively sense is harvested daily.


The system doesn’t care whether we interpret this energy as “good” or “bad.” Desire, outrage, longing, worship, despair—any highly charged emotion is motion fueling the machine’s attachment roulette wheel.


The same dynamics appear in narcissistic relationships and broader societal systems. The rules of the game are simple: attention is supply, shame is fuel, and our reactions—born from an unconscious need to protect ourselves in an unsafe space—activate the grid.


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