Hattie in her feeding station.
Four years after Hattie began living in my yard, she still wouldn't tolerate much physical contact.
When I brought out food for her, she would rub against my leg to thank me, and if I carefully and cautiously inched my hand down my leg, I could gently touch the top of her head.
HATTIE TEACHES ANIMAL COMMUNICATION
One day I invited Hattie to participate as a teacher in one of my online Animal Communication classes. I encouraged her to help people learn about being a cat living on her own outside. She agreed.
The week my students began speaking to Hattie, there was a dramatic difference in her behavior that lasted for the rest of her life.
For the first time ever, Hattie trusted me enough to allow significant physical contact: I could stroke Hattie's entire back and she would stay right next to my leg.
This change in our relationship was permanent.
It had nothing to do with anything I did differently, because I wasn't doing anything differently.
The only thing that had changed was that several people in the class had had conversations with Hattie.
Clearly this was important to Hattie - to learn that more than 1 human being cared about her, about knowing her, and about learning from her.
It was important to me, as well. When I could pet her, I could feel her rib cage and tell whether she was getting enough food to eat by how that area felt.
Hattie lived another 4 years. One day, as I was petting her, I found a lump on her side. I told her about it, since I didn't know if she would notice it under all that fur.
She thanked me for telling her, and 2 days later had completely disappeared. I got a message from her that she wanted to leave her body as she had lived, allowing a wild animal to quickly take her out.
Hattie was a gentle, loving soul. It was an honor to know her.
Thank you, Hattie, for all you have taught me and others.
Blessings,
Nedda