When considering these two types of sand, drainage rate is also a major factor. The extra firm blend because of it's ability to compact so tightly only drains at 17"/hr as compared to the softer blend that drains at 49"/hr.
There is a device called a Penetrometer that can measure the firmness of sand. On a scale of <1.8(high tendency for a ball to bury) to >2.4(very low tendency to bury) our sand measures at a 2.6.
The bunker sand we get from Bruceton Mills has been used at 3 US Opens(Winged Foot, Congressional) and will be used at the 2020 US Open at Winged Foot, it is also used at Laurel Valley and Caves Valley.
Mike Bogroff
Golf Course Superintendent