Hi Friend,

Today I'd like to ask you:

How important is honesty to you? Are you honest with yourself
and others?

Honesty is the best policy, don't you think so?

Sometimes it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that being
honest doesn't pay. This is an age where everybody thinks about
themselves. The problem is that when you're not honest you know
inside. You feel bad and that can hurt your self esteem.

If you are honest you'll help to increase your happiness within.
You'll feel better about who you are.
I'm sure that trying to be a good person and be truthful will
help you respect yourself more and will gain you the respect of
others.

An honest person makes a good friend. You'll be rewarded by the
love of friends and family if you are true to your word and as
others learn to trust you, you will trust others.

Those who are dishonest may seem to get away with it and seem
sometimes to benefiy but believe me anything gained from
dishonesty will have no real benefit for the person who acted so.

Aspire to be honest. Aspire to be honest to yourself and try to
be true to who you are. Don't deny or ignore any part of yourself
as this will bring you away from who you are. Happiness lies in
accepting who you are, trying to improve but being aware of what
you want and how you feel.

Aspire to be you. Don't worry what others think of you and do
what you think is right. Be honest to yourself by expressing how
you feel and asking others for help when you need it.

The true you is the one the world wants to see, it is the best
you can be. Don't hide from yourself or your feelings and
desires. Embrace them as you would a close friend.

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Emails asking for help
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It's time for me to be honest with you...

Everyday I get emails asking for my help and I really try to
answer the problems I receive but honestly I haven't got enough
time to answer them all. I decided a few months ago that I should
try to create a special site where I could answer these problems
and give you advice and tips how to solve them...

Why answer individual emails when I could give this help to all?

So I created "Aspire to be You" my new membership site...

I'll tell you more about this membership site soon and how you
can get in or if you would like information now

contact me at karl@karlperera.com

Take care,
Karl Perera

Author of "Self Esteem Secrets"
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/ebook.htm