Here's the trick, Friend, to dreaming your own life into being.
The dream you are here to manifest is a dream you created in the consciousness of the Divine before you arrived here on earth.
Being the dreamer of your life is less about deciding what you think you want now, as it is about aligning with your initial intention and Divine momentum, and using what is available in this moment to create.
When these energies are aligned, you become the conscious dreamer of your own life.