Many of us have a difficult time at the holidays with
family, as old wounds get triggered.
If you are Holding
the feelings that came up over the Holidays, you may be experiencing some well-deserved relief. And there is
something more you can do to deepen the healing that works perfectly with
Holding.
A few days ago I offered some insights in my blog about how
we learn as children to wait for the other shoe to drop. With traumatic
childhoods, you learn that right on the heels of a good moment, there will be a
really bad one.
Then as an adult, you try to create a positive life, using
all the techniques that are supposed to work, but instead of feeling healthier,
happier and more prosperous, that other shoe keeps dropping!
That’s because while your adult is navigating in the world,
your inner child is still suffering from the pain of childhood, and the needs
you had that were never met.
As I was creating approaches for healing the inner child a
year ago, Kwan Yin came to me in a vision and showed me that some issues we
struggle with are best healed at the point in time that the pain first
occurred.
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