Feeling the unique qualities and nuances of love that you have always needed is something you can begin creating for yourself. It helps to understand the developmental stages of the soul. These developmental stages are similar to the stages we go through to be able to walk. You need to crawl to prepare for holding on to things and taking steps. That prepares you to take independent steps, getting you ready to walk on your own. If you skip steps, you are not likely to develop the muscles that empower you! Say, as an adult you long for acknowledgment. It actually begins in the womb, with feeling deeply wanted. When you feel wanted, you are then able to feel acknowledged. Just like learning to walk, each developmental step of your soul needs to be fulfilled in order to live a truly happy life. Unfortunately, we often end up missing several steps. Then as we mature, we feel empty when we try to fulfill a more advanced emotional need.
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