Hi Friend!
I see it nearly every day—competent, beautiful, conscious individuals who have done lots of spiritual growth work, baffled by how challenging it is to be around their families of origin. The more you grow and expand in consciousness, the further away you seem to be from the people who raised them or grew up with them. Even though you know better, you might notice a tendency to continue to look to your family of origin for the specific expressions of love you never felt from them when you were a child. In the back of your mind you know family members can’t give you what they never experienced themselves, but the yearning still exists. When you’ve tried a dozen approaches for years—for loving the inner child—and nothing has quite worked, it’s easy to wonder if you can ever be loved the way you want to be loved. You see, there is a way to fulfill your desire for love and a way not to. There are some spiritual principles necessary to finally feel those unmet childhood emotional needs getting met. I’ve seen life-time problems dissolve in a single sacred journey that got to the real core, without having to remember or relive trauma! |