You have values, dreams, a sense of humor, things you want now and things you want for your future.

There is SO much to you besides any negative things that have happened to you or been said to you that hurt.

PLUS, you, Friend, have a tremendous inner power that you have yet to tap into that can bring you what you want in your life without all the time and hard work you've heard it takes!

I'm excited for you because I believe in you and I can see more for you than you can see for yourself. SO much potential and wonderfulness can be yours.

I find it interesting what we talk about first when we meet someone...

I've been meeting a LOT of new friends and potential new friends in the past 2 months. Something I manifested that I'm grateful has worked out really well. 😊

There are some things I notice when groups of us get together to meet for the first time.

When we're playing games or walking at the lake and laughing, and talking about what we like to do and sharing fun family, pet or travel stories, our energy is sky-high!

We feel youthful and vibrant and can't wait to get together again!

Then in some groups, someone starts deep, serious conversations about their abusive ex or focuses on a diagnosis they've been given and everyone joins in with their own similar stories.

The energy drops and people they just met may now feel sad, stressed, fearful and angry. "Super fun time, can't wait to NEVER hang out with you again!"

If you know me at all, you know I'll guide the conversation to positive, to the negative peoples' great annoyance (serves them right).

I do it because I want to get to know these women and who THEY are and what THEY are about.

Also, because I know our emotional energy is creating our life minute-by-minute, why talk about negative stuff that's going to pull in more negative stuff? (That's how energy works.)

Yes, you may have things in common like an abusive ex or diagnosis... but is that REALLY what you want to focus on and be known for?

Here's an article I wrote on how to share when appropriate without bringing others down, Friend…