What if you are ostracized for what you believe or how you feel?
We've talked about rejection before and how the mere thought of its possibility brings up strong feelings of fear.
Fear of being alone makes comes up if someone rejects you.
And oddly enough, it doesn't necessarily matter if it's an important person in your life or someone you just met or barely even know.
Did you know the fear of rejection is often as strong as the fear of death?!
It's true.
The fear of rejection takes on many faces but at its core, it is the fear of dying and more specifically, the fear of dying alone.
The reason is because those over-the-top deep-seated fears come from long before you were born.
And long before your parents and grandparents were born.
For women, they go back much further than some want to admit or would even believe.
But they are there.
They come from long ago and have been passed down.
While it seems they would fade or disappear as time went on, the opposite is true.
Which is why I do the work I do.
Waaaaaaay back, women were persecuted for speaking up, for having an opinion of their own, for having any power at all.
And many times most disturbing, simply for being female.
When they were rejected and shunned by their tribe, they were on their own and that meant certain death.
Other times, they were killed by the very people they trusted because those people were also afraid of rejection. (Apologies for the darkness but it needs to be said.)
Since then, as these underlying emotions get triggered, often without you or me even noticing, they grow STRONGER.
Even if you know consciously that rejection by someone, anyone, is simply that you are not a good fit, the underlying, over-the-top fear of impending death is just below the surface.
Scary?
Sure, it's a very big deal!
So big and invasive, most women don't want to know about it.
I mean, how on earth would you take care of something so deeply ingrained?
It would take decades and so many big life changes and therapy sessions to get rid of it. Who could even do that?
Truth is, because the fear is stored in your subconscious mind, it's easy to release in minutes so it doesn't bother you again.
Friend, just imagine how much better, stronger, more confident you would feel without concern of rejection.
What could you do if you knew you wouldn't be labeled, ridiculed, embarrassed, shamed?
How much more life could you have? How much more happiness? How much better health?
You know why we don't talk about this stuff? Ironically, it's the fear of rejection!
If I tell you I walk women through releasing this and other emotions just as dangerous and just as deep every day without them feeling or re-living a thing, would YOU be accepting of that?
Most women and men would not.
But that's what I do. And it gives people new start.
Every woman deserves a fresh start with a clear head and an open heart. 💖
I'm tired of worrying about saying what I do. It is truly my passion. And my passion is not acceptable to everyone. That needs to be okay with me.
What is YOUR truth, different belief, idea you've been afraid to share for fear of rejection?
I'm a safe place to share it if you would like to shoot me back an email. I'm the only one who will see it and I'll answer you personally and we'll celebrate your awesomeness together!
