| Hey Friend,
Last week I mentioned we'd be focusing on boundaries this week and that I have a personal story to share with you. I made you a short video too.
My article is below and continues on my blog.
As you read it, realize I've received several messages from both men and women in appreciation because they are dealing with the same (or similar) situation.
So if it rings a bell with you, just know you are in good company. My intention is to give you insight and clarity, and boost your courage to manage the situation confidently.
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Feeling Disrespected? Know When To Walk Away… Literally
True friends respect your boundaries.
It can hurt when someone doesn’t like you. Logically, you know you can’t please everyone — although you’ve probably tried and failed like the rest of us. If so, welcome to the party!
Personal boundaries based on your values are the best way to determine who you want in your life and who you don’t. If honesty, integrity, and common courtesy are important to you, people with those qualities are a good fit.
Pay attention to who you allow into your world. Your life is precious, and being mistreated hurts.
When you have supportive people with the same values close to you, it’s a lot easier to let the others go when you realize they are just not a good fit.
If you keep them, they will cause you to doubt yourself as in wondering what’s wrong with you or what you did. You might wonder why you don’t feel happy or good around them, or why they seem to purposely disagree with you or dislike you.
The truth is, for whatever reason, you two are not a good fit. Period.
Remember that YOU have to exhibit the same... continue reading (and watch video) at PositiveWomenBlog.com
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Friend, make it a good week and feel free to click "reply" and let me know if this topic resonates with you.
You ROCK! Kelly |
