Subject: When Parents Stop Parenting Too Soon

When Parents Stop Parenting Too Soon

Cómo puedo desarrollar mis hijos para que sean un buen ejemplo en la comunidad y también buenos líderes.?  El Señor es nuestro Pastor y nada nos faltará... Dios vino para bendecir y bendecir en abundacia.
Pero cuando las cosas salen de la mano con nuestros hijos...

QUIEN Tiene la culpa?
Que pasa cuando no siguen reglas y o quieren hacer lo que le dán la gana?


My dear wife and I were coaching a couple about 5 years ago. The conversation and topic came up in one of our sessions about the issues, discomfort and problems that she was having.  The stress & release of the pressure was affecting her relationship because she would take it out on her husband and the reality is that it came from an external issue that really had nothing to do with him.

After about a partial hour of talking she confessed that her daughter was out of control and needed help.  She was looking to see if we would talk and maybe also give some coaching to her daughter.


  I asked what was the issue? 
She indicated and started to give us a list of problems with her daughter... Keep in mind that this was a blended family and the step-father, who was not her husband was in the middle of this problem. 
So she went on the tell me the following...

  • her daughter would not follow the house rules
  • leave when ever she wanted to the streets with unknown friends
  • arrive late at night and try to sneak back into the house
  • argue and actually fight with her mom (actually scratched & hit her mom)
  • Talk back with foul language etc. Apparently started to smoke pot.

Ahora mira lo próximo que pasó...

Tan pronto que me dió la lista de problema con la hija... Me mente comenzó a pensar y yo dije esta nena tiene que tener por lo menos 17 a 19 años...(esto fue en mi mente)...    Cuando yo le pregunté... Que edad tenia la hija, ELLA ME DIJO QUE TIENE 12 años.

I almost exploded and fell out of my chair,  but was able to hold back my composure & reaction...  My Oh My,  how can you let a young lady that is only a child at 12 years young do what she pleases...   OMG!  Can you imagine a girl getting into a fight with her Mom and scratching her all up?  (What is ironic is that the kid on much smaller than her mom in size) So the problem was not the husband but the connection of the Mom with her daughter.  I think back now on this case and this is what inspired me to write this weeks article in Spanish called:
Conecte Con Sus Hijos y Desarrolle el Líder que Está en Ellos!
We did pray for them and the last I heard from her is that the mom and also the daughter did get help together from a Doctor that I recommended and things are much better today.  Thank GOD!  Take a look at this week's article that I wrote in regards to having a connection with you're kids.  And also building them up as leaders.  Click on the link below to see the article in Spanish... 

Prs. Roy y Vilma Llamas
ARE YOU A TEACHER, COACH MENTOR PASTOR AND HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF HAVING A 2ND INCOME ONLINE?   YOU CAN BY OFFERING WEBINARS TO YOUR CUSTOMERS OR STUDENTS.  GET THIS PERFECT WEBINAR SCRIPT TOTALLY FREE.
Strong Family Legacy, 135 Seabearn Ct. Suite 026, Orlando, Florida 32824, United States
You may unsubscribe or change your contact details at any time.