We're Starving for Something Money Can't Buy

July 20th, 2026 at 7:22 pm EDT
Belonging isn't something we buy. It's something we build.

We're Starving for Something Money Can't Buy

By Chris Cornell


There was a time when we knew our neighbors.

Not just their names.

Their stories.

The local barber wasn't simply cutting hair—he was checking on the neighborhood.

Church wasn't only a place to worship. It was where generations gathered around the same table.

Cookouts weren't events.

They were where friendships formed, businesses were launched, and children found another adult who would look out for them.

Somewhere along the way, we became more connected than ever...

Yet somehow, more disconnected than we've ever been.

We have thousands of followers but very few people we can call at 2:00 in the morning.

We're surrounded by people every day, yet loneliness has quietly become one of the defining experiences of our generation.


Last Tuesday, I wrote that the strongest people I know are tired.

I expected people to read it.

I didn't expect them to tell the truth.

Your comments weren't about leadership.

They were about life.

About being the strong one.

About carrying invisible burdens.

About showing up every day while quietly wondering who checks on the person everyone else depends on.


One comment stayed with me all week.

"I'm less interested in creating content than creating honest conversations." 

Sylvia Abuwi


That's it.

That's exactly what I hope E Period Speaks becomes.

Not another newsletter.

A place where honest conversations happen.

Because the more I thought about your responses, the more I realized something.

We're not just tired.

We're hungry.

Hungry for connection.

Hungry for purpose.

Hungry to belong.

We keep trying to fill that hunger with busier calendars, bigger titles, more followers, another purchase, another accomplishment.


Yet none of those things answer one of our oldest human questions:

Where do I belong?

That's why I've spent my career creating experiences.

Not because I love events.

Because I believe experiences create opportunities for people to find one another.

A brunch can become a friendship.

A conference can become a breakthrough.

A networking event can become a business partnership.

A simple conversation can change someone's life.

Community doesn't happen because we hope for it.

It happens because someone decides to create space for it.


One invitation.

One introduction.

One conversation.

One table at a time.

Maybe that's what we're really starving for.

Not more success.

More belonging.

THE REFLECTION

formerly Cocktails Commentary


10 years later and the needle hasn't moved. Smh.


10/10/16


Elections used to matter. But is this the best we can do from our natural selection batter?  From women battered with Trump’s erection to the deflection of emails and the Benghazi insurrection, I had to turn off the TV to keep from getting sadder.  It doesn’t even take further inspection to see how they are running rings around the issues like Saturn. It’s a pattern.  We went from Birth of a Nation to 24/7 killing us worldwide on every station and we still don’t get enough coverage to pray for the Haitians. They have a very specific set of skills that they are using…Taken. Raking in capital in their struggle for the Capitol, while y’all arguing about what is practical.  It’s tactical.  If you are out of position, then you will soon see the real and what is factual.  They fact checking on fiction.  Take a knee to protest this tradition if you want, but it’s clear that this is a split decision.  Black people need to choose, don’t be fooled by this rouse, because it’s not about who wins or lose.  You still undecided about whose views you should pursue, while they say they can help you out of this hell and blues, but don’t be confused.  Elections are not won by the majority of votes, but where we as minorities choose to place our bank printed notes.  How much time and talent are you willing to devote to better our plight?  If you buy into this vision of derision, I pray for your better sight.  We don’t have a dog in this fight.  Do you know the only way to make this thing right?  Do you know how you take a negative outcome and change it back to a plus?  Everyone knows the issues that we need to discuss.  They chose their side, and who their dollars need to touch.  My vote…I CHOOSE US!

FROM THE CONVERSATION ⭐

"I'm less interested in creating content than creating honest conversations." — Sylvia Abuwi


Last week's conversation reminded me that what we're building isn't a platform.

It's a place where people feel safe enough to tell the truth.

Thank you for continuing the conversation.

THE BLUEPRINT

One actionable takeaway.


Not ten.


One.


Example:


The Blueprint


This week...


Become the convener.


Invite someone to coffee.


Call the friend you've been meaning to check on.


Introduce two people who should know each other.


Don't wait for community.


Create it.

Experience This

AIM HIGHER

"Community has never started

with a crowd..."


— Chris Cornell

QUESTION OF THE WEEK ⭐

Where have you experienced true belonging... and how can you create that feeling for someone else this week?


Reply and let me know.

I read every response.

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