Hi, Friend!
If you understand what is happening, you have found an optimized path
to an improved situation. In contrast, a lack of understanding only
multiplies uncertainty. When aiming at a target, the greater the error
in the sighting, the greater the chance of missing the bullseye.
This applies to almost any task, but it is just as valid to
relationships. Communication must be accurate if the goal is increasing
closeness. The more you can’t see what is going on in a person, the more
hopeless and powerless you can feel. Then, if you cannot trust God, the
odds increase that you will respond to your situation with frustration
or even folly.
Matt |