How are you doing, Friend?
Have you ever wondered why relationships end in heartbreak?
Frequently, people fall in love and break up for one and the same
reason.
People fall in love because of a strong desire to be loved. They
break up when they are faced with their or their partner’s inability to
love. The challenge of loving well is that people need to be loved for
who they are, not for their level of performance. Believers in Jesus
will grow in their ability to love, but there are no guarantees of a
perfect love. Only God is capable of that. Pursue a romantic
relationship because of what a partner can realistically offer based on
who God made him or her to be. Seeking a partner while hoping for what
is unrealistic only perpetuates an illusion of love.
Don’t fall in love based on an illusion.
Matt
-------
Emotional Healing is the subject of an experiential course I’ve developed. Emotional Healing will help you understand how to find optimal living. The first lesson is available to preview without any obligation. |