What is your relationship to self-mastery?
What does “setting healthy boundaries” look like to you?
How realistic are you about your own limitations?
Do you have an Ascendant (or any personal planets) in the following: 26-29 degrees of Capricorn, Cancer, Aries, Libra, or 0-1 degrees of Aquarius, Leo, Taurus, or Scorpio?
Then you will feel the impact of this New Moon more strongly.