The typical “thank you” is like a completion of an event that has already happened. It is a reward, of sorts and part of social convention. (When you don’t get a “thank you”, do you feel that something is missing?) Orrin Woodward said, “ingratitude produces pride while gratitude produces humility.” Does that mean by putting our pride aside and focusing on service, we can actually change our posture, our confidence, our outlook or even our life? Aha! ~ It is impossible to be negative when you are giving thanks. When you give thanks in anticipation of an outcome, or give thanks for challenges you’ve endured in the past, or give thanks to all the people of whom you have encountered – or will encounter – and their input whether you agree with them or not, or give thanks for your body, your mind, your abilities, your comfy bed, yummy food and simply being the amazing YOU that you are, when would you possibly have time to be negative? |